I have absolutely no clue. None. Ok, that’s not fair. In my everyday real life, according to traditional standards and expectations (as if everything goes by plan) I should be preparing from my oldest’s graduation from college and prepping for my youngest to be graduating from high school. Of course, given my baby is on the spectrum and even today, we had an incident occur in which we were asked to leave the premises, even though he wasn’t the one that threw punches or was involved in the start of the fracas, his reaction to the events in front of him is not what “normal” kids do at his age. And that reaction drew far more attention, in a distracting manner, than the three kids literally throwing punches. From a career standpoint, I am at a crossroads right now. With some opportunities I can consider or remain where I am. I can’t say for certain where dh and I will be or if we’ll be but that’s on me and where I’m at on my own journey. In five years, one of the charities that I volunteer for should be rolling into their 5-year development plan and the business plan and communication cadence that I co-designed last year will have been key in getting them this far. I would hope that he and I are still in one another’s lives in parallel to our every day real lives. I would hope.