Disagree completely. And so does Janis Spring. The only people who are really invested in selling this line to people are those who did wrong. As for defining? What’s wrong with being defined by having survived something terrible? People don’t choose to go to war but they can be proud of their scars. Nice try though.
is me is really me 
Love this!
So if I understand you correctly Nephila….you will forever be defined by your husband’s adultery? Is that what you are trying to say?
Disagree completely. And so does Janis Spring. The only people who are really invested in selling this line to people are those who did wrong. As for defining? What’s wrong with being defined by having survived something terrible? People don’t choose to go to war but they can be proud of their scars. Nice try though.