Exactly.
I have learned through my own life and experiences that as much as we may want to fix people in our lives, that’s just not possible. Change comes from within us. This coming from someone who was pretty broken. Many tried to change or save me, unsuccessfully. Change only happened when I was ready for it. When I was ready to embrace it and willing to put in the work for it. We all have our own dysfunctions, insecurities, fears and flaws. The best type of partner is the one patient enough to stick around, support from the sidelines and love you unconditionally, until the day you can love yourself that way.
is me is really me 