As a practice, my preference is to only post images in black & white, but for this, I have to make an exception. This is the view from the cabana by the sea, if you look closely you can see surfers dotting the swirl, in which I spent some time earlier this year, in contemplation as the masseuse worked his magic.
Why am I posting about this now? Good question, I don’t know. The last few months have been a cacophony of noise. Or rather, that’s what it’s felt like. A constant buzzing of demands in every aspect of our lives. Enough so it’s almost impossible to focus on one thing at any given time. Granted, much of it is related to having a child that’s about to graduate from high school and all of the work and preparation that comes with that, along with, the ongoing work to apply to colleges and then hurry up and wait. Hoping you’ve been at least smart enough to do some financial planning when it comes to their secondary education. And of course, there’s our work, as a couple and individuals. Couples counseling, marriage counseling-whatever you call it is hard work. Especially when it’s a good session, it’s brutally hard. As it should be. But it’s also emotionally and mentally draining. I’m not one to back away from work. Ever. But lately, I need a break. Just time to breathe and take in the day. And so, I look at this picture and hear the surfers encouraging one another, as the surf breaks just outside the cabana window. And I breathe deeply. Forging ahead…
Yes… take a break. And then, take a break from your break. If you have time squeeze in one more break. Take care of yourself, Isme
You can do it. You’re the strongest woman I know! Hang in there. You need a mini break
Thanks M. I hope so. Just feels very, difficult right now. Different than usual, but, taking steps to regain my balance and strength. Thank you! {{hugs}}
I know you will IsMe. I know you will.
I wish I had some magic words that make the noise quiet, because I don’t know that it ever stops when one has a husband and children at home. But with the backbeat of relationship counseling it can overwhelm and suck away at the joy of these last days of hands-on parenting with the high school senior. Hugs, and may you have a few moments of quiet stillness all to yourself in the days ahead.
Thank you so much. Appreciate it {hugs}